I'm so angry right now that my chest is one tight knot. I am just so pissed!
Dipshit sold my grandfather's ring and my grandfather's very old watch. He didn't ask me if I was okay with this, he didn't ask me how I felt about it. When I told him call your sister and ask her to hold off on cashing the check that he gave her for money he borrowed, he was all just like 'yea I guess I can ask her if she didn't put it through already.' And NEVER even made an effort to get off his ass and call her.
Today he came home, and was all like so I got about 250 for both. And I'm looking at him going "what? huh?"..."He's like the ring and watch, I sold them." He said it like he was telling me he picked up milk and eggs or asking me how's the weather. Like it was no big deal. But FUCK! It is a big deal! They were my grandfather's, they are irreplaceable and he had no right. My grandmother must be rolling over in her grave about now.
I'm so damn pissed I can't even think straight and it's giving me a headache.
What right does he have to do that? He didn't sell his chain from his sister, nor did he sell his wedding band. But he had no trouble at all selling what wasn't his to sell. I think I'm going to be sick.
Oh gosh, I am so sorry. I know how you must feeling losing something so precious. If I were you, I would begin hiding whatever other items that he might sell...and it was NOT his property to sell so you might have some legal leeway there.
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I'm beyond words, but more so I think I'm just numb at the thought he actually did it and is so carefree about it. He told me like he was asking me how's the weather. So just lodi-da...I thought about the legal standpoint, and he had those 2 items in his possession, so I don't know if that would go over well. Plus I just want to keep things as cool and civil as possible so that should I leave, there's nothing he can throw at me. But I have instructed my girls to hide anything of value and I am doing the same. Just means I don't go out anymore knowing he would be here alone and able to search my things.
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry that this has happened. Follow Mary's advice and hide anything that he could sell. You're in my thoughts and I do hope things get better soon. I know it might not be much, but use the power of the full moon tonight. It may help a little.
ReplyDeleteBlessings,
Willow
I'd call the police on him for robbery...selling something that was not his to sell...
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry darling....doesn't seem enough does it? I think your difficult journey with him is close to a culmination or a seperation of some kind...the emotional turmoil he seems to have tossed upon you is almost unbearable I can see. I hope you have found some way to gather your emotions and use them for yourself in such a powerful, self assurting way. You can do anything and you are just chomping at the bit to get it done. I have faith you will come to the best conculsion in this dilemma you can. We do not face anything we cannot in some way conquer...Have faith in the Goddess and yourself for you are worth it!
ReplyDeleteRemember, the law of three he will get back what he is giving out, how is completely up to him. Brightest Blessings! )o(